So sorry for not keeping you all posted-- it's been a bit of a journey. Michael is finally at another facility, much closer than L.A.He is doing fantasticly!!! He's showering, eating, changing clothes, and he's even put on some weight too! It was great visiting with him this Saturday. We added some of his friends to the visit; I brought Chineese food and they all enjoyed it. I left, him with a hug, and walked out. I cried a little when I was driving home. One of his friends has lost him parents and has no visitors anymore...my lunch made him happy. But then I thought, what will happen to mike when I die? Who will care about him? It scares and saddens me.